Farewell to Fair Haven

Thursday, November 15, 2012

Our Return Home

The following 2 videos are shared because we were unable to load them in our last posting. The first will show how beautiful it can be sailing out on the water. The second we took while motoring through the Great Dismal Swamp. As you will see, it is awesome, scenic and definitely NOT dismal!

 Sailing the Chesapeake
from Norfolk to Deltaville

 
 Motoring the Great Dismal Swamp
to Norfolk

Kimtory off the Jersey Coast
Before the fog set in
We stayed in Cape May, NJ from 5/26/12 until the morning of 5/30/12.  The weekend of the 26th was Memorial Day weekend and we had learned by now that holiday weekend boating was crowded and rough due to endless wakes from weekend power boaters.  No offense but the number of power boats encountered is in direct correlation to the number of inconsiderate a**holes you'll encounter.  I can't begin to tell you the number of times we were overtaken by large power boats who would intentionally create the largest possible wake while sitting on their aft decks laughing and gesturing as they watched us being rocked unmercilessly to and fro.  You have to wonder at the mentality level of people who get off on this type of behavior.  Therefore we stayed at Utsch's Marina through the Memorial Day weekend planning to leave early Tuesday morning for our trip up the Jersey coast.  As is always the case the weather would dictate our schedule and we didn't leave Cape May until Wednesday morning the 30th of May.  A strong storm system was moving north by northeast.  The morning we left it was off the coast of Virginia.  After extensive conversations with Kimtory we estimated we had approximately 24 hrs to get up the Jersey coast ahead of this storm system.  We all took a deep breath, cut the lines and headed out into the north Atlantic through the Cape May inlet. I would be remiss if I didn't give credit for the in depth weather analysis to Frank and Denise.  We had first met Frank and his crew mate Denise in Jacksonville Beach a year and a half ago.  We chatted over breakfast one morning and found out they were from Ithaca, NY and headed to the Bahamas.  We would not see or hear from them until we crossed paths at Utsch's sixteen months later.  We shared cocktails with them on board Kimtory and Frank gave us an analysis of the weather system bearing down on us.  If we didn't leave Wednesday morning it was certain we would be in Cape May through the weekend.  We were all anxious to get up the Jersey coast and decided to leave Cape May the next morning.  After the weather briefing Frank and Denise shared with us some of their sailing adventures over the intervening months.  We were all in stitches at some of the predicaments they got into and somehow managed to get out of.  Both are true adventurers and a fun couple to pass some time with.  At last report they were continuing their sailing adventure and heading back to the Bahamas.

Once again the 24 hrs off the coast of New Jersey was not kind to us.  Although wind and seas were calm we encountered heavy rain less than an hour out of Cape May.
 

After sunset off the Manasquan Inlet we were in fog as thick as pea soup.  Kimtory tucked in off our port stern and we managed to stay in sight of each other until day break.  The fog lifted as we entered Atlantic Highlands.  It was this shared experience which bonded our close friendship with Keith and Katie.  We remain in touch to the present day.
Keith & Katie
We were on a mooring in Atlantic Highlands when the storm system caught up to us.  We spent the next 24 hrs rocking and rolling unable to visit our friends on Kimtory less than 50 yards away.  At 0630 hrs on Saturday morning 6/2/12 we said goodbye via cell phone to our friends on Kimtory. They waved to us from the cockpit of their boat as we sailed away.  As was the case many times over the course of our journeys it is hard to say goodbye to the close friends with whom you've shared such unforgettable times.

The trip through New York harbor was memorable.  Being early Saturday morning shipping traffic was light.  Once again we saw Lady Liberty up close and personal.

Lady Liberty

As we approached the tip of Manhattan we could see clearly the changing shape of the New York City skyline.

The rebuilding of the World Trade Centers rose ever closer toward the sky.  Sailing Club races were starting in the Hudson River and joggers and walkers were visible all along the west side of Manhattan.  We travelled to many places over the past year and a half.  Each stop along the way held fond memories.  However as we sailed up the Hudson River on this sunny Saturday morning there was no doubt in our minds, "WE LOVE NY"! 
World Trade Center
rebuilding
The next two weeks we made stops in Haverstraw, Kingston, Catskill, and Waterford on the Hudson River.  Amsterdam, Ilion and Sylvan Beach on the Mohawk River and Erie Canal.  We stayed in Ilion for a week to make dentist/doctors appointments and register our car.  My sister Becky assisted us greatly by letting us use her car until ours was on the road.  Over a twenty two month period our journey on board Dalliance had taken us over 3600 miles, through nine states with a total live aboard time of just under thirteen months.  In addition we lived five additional months on board Dalliance at the Fair Haven Yacht Club.  In between our lay up at Indian town Marina in April 2011 and our return to Dalliance in March 2012 we lived in Belize, Central America and completed construction of our seaside home.  We'd like to extend our sincere thanks to all the people who made our journey a success.  We know without the support of family, friends, fellow sailors and marine service providers our journey would not have been possible.  Our future sailing plans include a return in May to Dalliance who's spending the winter on her cradle at Bayside Marina in Fair Haven, NY.  We'd like to continue our explorations of Lake Ontario next summer getting to ports on the west side like Niagara-On-The-Lake and Toronto.

We plan to continue posts from our home in Belize and other future ports we find interesting on our journey through life.  Stay tuned.

1 comment:

  1. Please contact your friends from Kimtory for me ... I found a digital storage card (at Gillette Stadium in Foxboro, Mass.) almost 2 1/2 years ago that has about 300 of their personal photos on it, and I recently asked friends on Facebook to help me find them so I can return the photos to them. There are photos of that sailboat on the card. I can be reached at hawkmano@comcast.net. I also put all of those photos on a Flickr account and they can be viewed at http://www.flickr.com/photos/55708200@N06/

    I'm a sportswriter by trade, but also an amateur photographer who knows the pain of losing precious photographic memories. I'd really like to return their photos to them.

    --Mark Farinella, Foxboro, Mass.

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